Wednesday, June 3, 2015
Slightly Loathing the Friends You Love
So I just finished having a conversation with one of my girlfriends about this guy who is texting her and might be interested in her. Mind you I love this girl to death and I thoroughly enjoy talking to her about anything and everything. But do y'all ever have those moments where your girlfriends will talk to you about all the guys they are dating or talking to and you just can't listen to another word? I know I do! Its like all my friends have had boyfriends and boy problems since junior high and the only boy problems I can seem to come up with to talk to them about are the guys that used to pick on me in elementary school or my brothers who were annoying me at home. I never used to mind so much because I always thought back in junior high that I would get a boyfriend in high school and then in high school it was okay because I would eventually get a boyfriend when I went off to college. Well now I find myself going into my third year of college and still no boyfriend to be seen. Now some may say that I need to be patient and that my time will come to have a boyfriend. My parents even tell me that boys aren't that important and that what I need to focus on is school and getting my degree. But what girl is not going to think about boys and especially with all of her girlfriends talking about all the dates they have been on with these great guys. Am I just walking down the wrong side of the campus? Did I miss the seminar on single guys here, girls come grab one? But the one thing that is always in the back of my mind that I try to push away with all my strength is that I have yet to find a boyfriend at the age of 19 because boys just don't want to date me. They see me and either think I'm a child or that "hey there is something wrong with her, and she is just not someone I would ask out". Either way sometimes I just really want to find the dang mute button on my friends never ending boy talks.
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