Taking Care of Him

So what do you do when one of your family members get sick? I know that I do everything that I can to help them. I have mastered the skills of cooking, cleaning, and medicating for my sick family members so I know that when my future man gets sick I will be able to help him out. But what I'm wondering is if he will let me help him. I know how guys are about being sick and not wanting anyone's help. But will my man look at my disability as a factor that I can't help him? Will he push me away because he doesn't want me to catch what he has because he knows it will effect me a lot worse. All I know is that we will have to work together to get through our illnesses because I can not stand to see people suffer and that coughing is really gonna get on my nerves! LoL!!